29 February, 2012. 5.19 pm
I left work to light some candles and change into a dress. The same one I wore for the first party Sarge and I threw together.
5.40
CJ kindly spent the evening in the living room so my PA could set a path of pebbles from the front door to the bedroom.
I stayed put, with a cup of coffee and a candy ring.
6.01
Sarge texted to say he was doing Senior Software Geek stuff and would be home by 8. Instead of blowing out the candles and picking up the pebbles, I stayed in the bedroom for two and a half hours. I couldn’t concentrate on my book. Or breathe. I may have managed to play Bejeweled Blitz, bargaining with my score.
8.43
I was down to two candles. Sage came in with shopping bags and toilet paper. ‘You got me pebbles.’ He might have cried before stepping into the bedroom. And then I forgot the time.
He kisses me.
‘Are we going to do this with toilet rolls in your hand?’
‘No’, he says and puts the shopping away. I’m still in the bedroom. I may have been wondering if he’d jumped out the window.
He comes back.
I gave him two pebbles.
‘Now, I’m not balanced enough for one knee,’ I said. And so, I got down on both.
And then I cried and said some mushy stuff, and ended with, ‘Will you marry me?’
And then he said some mushy stuff and cried and then I cried some more and we hugged and I might have said, ‘Wait, did you just say yes?’
‘Yes,’ he said.
‘Holy shit,’ I said.
And then he says, ‘Would you like to get up now?’
‘Yeah, now is good.’
I put the candy ring on his finger.
He reaches for something. It’s a penguin. It’s a penguin ring box.
‘What is THAT?’
I open the box. It’s empty.
‘I thought we could choose one this weekend.’ And then he chooses another candy ring. Gets on one knee and says, ‘You’re awesome. Will you marry me?’
‘YES!’
Best proposal ever. We asked each other. I figure that’s a good start.
The candy rings are in the fridge, waiting to be varnished and framed.
On Saturday, we took Frodo Bob Box to Glasgow on the quest for the ring. That day gets its own post!






Aww how sweet! Was he planning to do it on the same day?? Congrats again!
Thanks, Beth! I don’t know, he won’t tell me when he bought the box!
CONGRATULATIONS!
That’s amazing, and beautiful, and wonderful….and wow…great minds think alike, eh?
Congratulations again! Much happiness to you both!
Thank you! We are petty good like that!
That’s a wonderful story. Many congratulations to you both.
Thanks, Eileen. My favourite story so far!
HOw very, very wonderful! Congratulations!
Thank you! Very, very much!
OMG!!! Congratulations. I’m soooo happy for you both. Much, much love! Now I have an excuse to come to Scotland!
You wouldn’t believe me if I told you the coincidences related to your pebbles and the ring in the picture, especially the ring.
Congratulations to Sarge and best wishes to you.
This makes *my* day. I don’t know why that is, but it does.
I’m glad it makes your day, Hipster. Mine, too! Thank you!
I love this – so sweet. Congratulations to you both. I pray you are immensely happy for many, many years.
That’s the plan! Thank you!
Congratulations! A very good start with both of you in the same place at the same time, which is what I wish for you for many years.
Thank you, Carol!
That is such an amazing story to be able to cherish and share through the years. Two hearts and minds on the same path at the same time. Congratulations!
Thank you! We have plenty of stories to tell our kids and grandkids. This may be the first one!
I am so happy for you!
Thank you!
Congratulations to you both! I wish you many years of happiness!
Thanks, Jen!
Congratulations! I wish you all the best!
Thank you, Susan!
Best wishes for much happiness. I became engaged in an unusual way too, but that’s another story. xoxo cousin susan
Thanks, Susan! Means a lot! What was your engagement story?
Congratulations mama!! Great story.
Thanks, Spinny! We think so!
Fantastico!! Congratulations!
Isn’t it?!? Thanks, Karen!
Great minds think alike, as they say.. congratulations to you both!
Thanks, Ali! And thanks for the pings. I hope the drafting is going well!
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Yay!! I love happy endings/beginnings
Thank you, Sue. Me, too! This is just the beginning!
Oh I love your proposals story ~ fantastic ~ and congrats to you both! ~ namaste, Carol (A Creative Harbor)
Thank you, Carol! Nice to hear from you again!
That’s so sweet – got me teary eyed. Congratulations to you both!
Thanks, Kat! I was a mess.
This is amazing! I love this! Congratulations to the both of you!!!
Thanks again, Doris!
Congrats!! Such a great story, sounds like you made the right decision, waiting for that moment even tho’ it came two hours later. Do tell about the ring hunt, bound to be humor in that!
Thanks, Roxie! Look out for the ring story tomorrow!
Lovely, lovely. Congratulations to you both! This post made my day.
Thank you, Susan! Quest for ring coming up, when non-blog writing is done. Is it ever?
That’s so sweet! Popped in from SITS!
Thanks, Ducky!
Wonderful, congratulations!
Thanks, Taryn!
Goosebumps, I have goosebumps! I could cry. I’m so happy!! Very well done.
Me, too, Sharon. I still do. Thank you very much!
That made me cry in the best way! Congratulations!
Wonderful! Wishing you much happiness!
Sorry kid, no tears here, I was a tough NewYork City Cop, (sniff, sniff), but very happy for you both and wish you both all the joy in the world.
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